What does it mean?

Do you ever find yourself using a word or a phrase and wondering how that ever became a part of your vocabulary. Abby had her first soccer practice last night, and John and I are the coaches of her team. I thought it would be a fun experience and somethig that we could all be a part of as a family. How did it go? Oh you know... fine. Fine, considering the evening consisted of 5 five year old kids all wanting at the ball, kicking ferociously at everything BUT the ball. Kids stealing the ball from their own team members. One hungry girl who kept trying to play while snacking on pretzels. Two balls in faces. One tooth through a lip. All in all - very little accomplished aside from that.

Since then I've pretty much referred to it as a "Gong Show." I caught myself at one point when I realized I didn't even know what a gong show was. What exactly was I saying when I described the first game of the year that way? I decided I'd better look up the definition.

"An event marred by confusion,ineptitude,and disorganization"

Yup I was right. That was our team. Who's in charge anyway??



Feel free to send any tips this way. We'll take all the help we can get!

It's the .True North Strong & Free eh!

So my brother in law and his wife just moved here. Isn't that great? Right here to this very town! We are elated to have even more family close by. Why should MY sister be the only one who has to put up with me eh?) I often feel as though I rarely have the chance to really get to know John's siblings and their spouses because they live so far away. And when they do come to visit, they “hardy” ever stay long enough! So we are thrilled that some of them will be here this summer.

So I thought I'd dedicate this post to my sister-in-law, Luci. She's a born and raised American (one of those:) and despite the fact that she parks her car funny, she's living proof that good things do come from that side of the border. Just kidding. I don't think Canada is without any flaws - but I am convinced that it is one of the finest places to live. So Luci, here are 5 great reasons to feel glad you live in Canada:


- It's the 2nd largest country in the world and one of the lowest populated per square mile .
- Gorgeous mountains in the west and some of the largest fresh water lakes in the world. We'll go fishing!!!
- Universal Childcare payments! Look into it eh. Seriously this almost makes me want to have more babies. ...almost.
- We have cool currency. Really. The "TOONIE" & the "LOONIE"? Lucky us:)
- In John's words: "We're small enough not to be noticed, but when needed we're big enough to make a difference."


Anyone reading this-feel free to share any of the reasons you love Canada. (you don't have to be a blogger even to respond. Just click on comments and add one anonymously) oh, C'mon-do it for Luci!


YouTube - Rick Mercer - Talking to Americans - 2 of 5

Here's to dirty socks

I've always felt that one thing that separates a boy from a girl is the amount of dirt that seems to cling to little boys. Their hands, their faces, their clothes, their socks, every inch of little boys just begs to get dirty. I couldn't help but laugh (and cry) the other day when I picked up Sam's brand new socks. Nothing stays new for long does it?
At first I wanted to get mad and list off a thousand reasons why I am SICK of doing SOO MUCH laundry! But then, I noticed the socks on my own feet. Hmmmm. Perhaps this throws my boy/girl theory about dirt out the window.









What's the reason for all this dirt? Well since you're wondering-it's this:


No this is not our weekly amount of garbage used in our home. We actually use slightly less then this normally. This is a picture of 15 bags of PINE NEEDLES! Not leaves. Not grass. Needles only- and LOTS of em. I spent two days raking under and around these blasted pine trees. Now at first it seemed enjoyable enough. Some exercise, fresh air, I got to watch the sunset last night as I worked. I think this is the sort of thing that brings out the obsessive compulsive part of me. You know it is bad when you realize you are "sweeping" the grass with a broom determined to get every last stinkin needle.


Needleless to say (hee hee), this morning at 6:00am as I unwillingly went out to finish the job I wasn't quite so optimistic. Quite the opposite in fact. Stupid sunrise. Stupid trees. Stupid pain in my wrists. Stupid...boring...hate it!!!

And John said we'd never have a pet:))

You know so many times I've been told that when it comes to parenting it is important to "choose your battles." I'm beginning to think that kids have clued into that, and play that card to their advantage. You see all month Abby has been making little visits to our neighbors home across the street. This elderly widow has several cats and a couple of those cats have had babies. Sure yeah, I'll admit, they are the cutest most darling little kittens in the world. Now John has promised us that we will never...NEVER have pets. In fact, "You know where" will freeze over-before we get a pet:) Abby is devastated every time we have to explain to her our reasons for this. Oh if only one of us could've just been allergic-that would have been an easy out:) For days we've had to put up with endless debates, and tears because Abby just wants to go see her new friend...(and of course the kittens just happen to be there) It's not the first time Abby has been hooked on a pet. There was that time that she prayed for days for a little baby lamb. That was nice. I kept worrying that her little budding testimony was hinging on the results of all her prayers. More then once she's asked us why we can't have a horse...a goat or, (in her own words) "maybe actually just a pig."

You have to understand my nervousness when she came in from the backyard today saying, "Ok mom, since I can't have a cat- then I have to get to have a different pet." In her hand was a small blue bucket. I stared at her mud stained face with apprehension wondering what could possibly be in that pail. A salamander? A mouse? A snake? If you know me-you'll understand why the worst was going through my mind. She proudly showed me her new pets. Worms. Three of them. Three tiny little worms.

So here the pail sits...in the bathroom...right next to our toothbrushes. Abby left for her friends house after giving me the instructions needed for me to care for her worms while she is gone.

I know you moms might be wondering right now, "Who's really in charge" in our home. In all honesty-I am the mom-but I have to say it sure feels at times, as though the kids rule. You know what though in this case-I think I'm ok with that. She finally gets her pet. She thinks I'm the best mom in the world. (at least last time I talked to her) On the other hand, I don't have to change any litter boxes, walk anything, pick up any hair, buy any animal food, or pick up droppings of any sort. Best part is when these little baby worms are old enough to be "on their own" we'll move them out back to the garden where Abby can visit them there.


Truth be told and despite what Abby might think - I do believe the parents came out winners on this one.

The Sky is falling!!!

...ok not really but I have to admit, I feel a little bit like Chicken Little lately.

Is any one following the news-or are you smart and have you decided to not let it bog you down? I have always been aware that half the world experiences poverty. A type of poverty that I can't even begin to understand. I've never really been able to watch world vision or shows similar to it without feeling sick that people could actually have so little. How can some people live on nothing-while others have SO MUCH!!! Now, I'm pretty good at distancing myself from things that don't impact me directly. Self-centered I know-but it's true. I think we are getting a little wake up call, and when I say "little" I really do mean small in comparison to the rest of the world. Still though, it seems every time I turn on the radio now, they are warning about the upcoming SOARING prices for pretty much everything. Rice, wheat, oil...whatever it is-it is in short supply or expensive.



Lately I have felt a little kick to get ready. What for-I don't know-hopefully nothing. I just want to feel more prepared then I do. I think half this town had the same thought as me. I went to the grocery store to buy some rice because Loyd Robertson on 11:00 news told us that it was disappearing and the shortage will cover the earth like a giant Tsunami!!!! No worries eh:)) Hah. When I got to the store, I was surprised to see that most of the selection had been cleared out. Only a few bags left! Try not to panic...I tell myself. Perhaps the grocery clerks are just behind on stocking the shelves. So I went to our local emergency preparedness store to buy some in bulk. The store was PACKED with people! The rice was gone. I ordered some (ok 40 lbs:) but I was warned that the price I'll pay when it comes will likely be TWICE as much as it was a week ago. Is this crazy?

Needless to say, Food Storage is our focus now. We've also decided that we need to get used to walking more and using less electricity. For our budget's sake.

Abby must have picked up on our conversations and my concern, because over supper one night she asked us. "Mom...Dad...are we poor?" It broke my heart that this sweet little 5 year old was even wondering that, and I was instantly reminded of those darling faces of kids I'd seen on television so many times. Kids with big eyes and hungry tummies and sickness and precious little else. We had an opportunity to reassure her and share with her something that I really do feel. We have a home. A job. Health. Our Faith. We have some food storage. We have each other.

No Abby we are not poor. We are very VERY rich. ... We just don't have lots of money:))

Cherry Tart anyone?

Jessica sure enjoys her desserts!

Earth Day for Dummies

With April being Earth month, I've heard lots of talk about gowing "green." Local community cleanups are being organized, Al Gore is EVERYWHERE and I'm constantly being reminded of things that I'm NOT yet doing to help the cause. As a family we've been trying to make some changes, but there is a lot of "habit" to change. And you know what they say about habits right? Tough to break aren't they?

Over the years we have made efforts to be a little more healthy and aware of what we do with our garbage, and I am proud of the improvements we have made. But we personally have a long ways to go. Sometimes it feels like I don't know the first thing about "livin green."

This month, I plan to switch to homemade household cleaners. Yeah I know it isn't much, but it is just one of our "baby steps." One day I'll try composting. Just can't bring myself to begin that yet.:)

I am in search of some good homemade recipes for cleaners. If you have any...please share.

Here we are. The end of Spring Break. The last day of John's time off. (sob). I couldn't help but notice how different life is when John is home all day. We seem to lose all sense of routine:) Is that weird?

Yesturday we decided to spend the last official day of spring break in style by going out to Waterton for lunch. The park officially opens this week so we thought we'd get there and enjoy the tranquility one last time before people start coming.
As we entered the park we noticed they were burning for some reason. The entire grassland to our left was consumed in billows of smoke and fire. The fire was low, and contained-but we still are not really sure why park officials were doing that? Perhaps burning the grass will help encourage new growth? Maybe they were trying to kill all the ticks? :) Whatever the reason (we are sure it is a good one) it was odd to see so much blackened earth right there in the park.


The kids enjoyed the hotdogs and marshmallow. There were a few remaining drifts of snow that they climbed on and the water was flowing which made for an enjoyable time throwing rocks. Beautiful.

With the forecast of looming snow we decided we'd better head home and complete our yardwork. We've been preparing for spring big time around here. A year ago we were preparing to buy this place and I must admit, I am getting quite comfortable in our little home. There is something about working on your own property and making it your own space that is very fulfilling and now I never really drive up to our house without thinking, "I love this place!." It is in large part because of this pleasant little spot. In a few weeks this flower bed will be blooming and I plan to spend many mornings in the hammock enjoying it all. This hammock is one of my favorite things. Infact, when we do rebuild-I plan to plan around this very tree:)

My father-in-law is helping us plant our first garden this year. I wish I could say I knew how to do it all on my own, but...I don't. I know very little about gardening. Time to learn eh! John straightened up and defined the edges of our flower beds, and I spent days (and DAYS) weeding and cleaning out the dead growth from last year. We've also erected a small makeshift fence in our backyard and created a flower bed back there as well. Finally I raked our entire property and John tinkered around with his favored toy-his John deere lawn tractor:)) Trees are pruned, as mentioned the hammock is hung, and for a couple of hours we were able to sit back and just enjoy it all. And then....



this happened:



AHHHHHH!!!!!!!! HOW? Someone tell me HOW DOES THIS HAPPEN??


This is a lovely way to end spring break- wouldn't you say?

Road Trip

We did it! What you might be wondering? Well, we finally stopped talking about it and went on a little trip. We left our little town(and our country for that matter) and headed south... approximately six hours drive south, to the charming little town of Bozeman, Montana. We went to visit John's sister and her family, and if you've ever seen the movie "A River Runs through it"-that's where we were. I was a little bit worried about the driving aspect of the trip-the part where I have to be in a van with 3 kids under the age of 5 for FIVE and a half hours-but even that was FUN! Considering our kids have never really travelled (further then two hours) they did great!

I love this picture of John because it is the perfect illustration of what we were feeling as we left. "Uh we don't know where we are going...but we're havin' fun!" Of course, the kids did get a bit restless a couple of hours into it (it was bound to happen), so John just pulled over...cut them a few stalks of grass and voila, they had some nice swords to tie them over for a few more hours.

Needless to say we were thrilled when we finally arrived. Abby and Sam were delighted to be with their cousins and ...their cousin's TOYS! Abby and Sam spent most of the weekend being pirates, droids, sorcerers building train stations and anything else that their cousins introduced them to. It was great!


John and our brother in law took the kids to a dinosaur museum one morning. Abby loves dinosaurs. Something about seeing replicas though just freaks her out:) She still talks about the dinosaur that kept "winking" at her (There actually was a replica of a sleeping baby triceratops whose stomach moved in and out to simulate breathing... Abby's concerns about the dinosaurs being alive seemed to have snowballed from that point forward.) Sarah showed me some great shops in the downtown area and I really could have spent all day there just exploring...and spending. She was really nice to show me several Art Stores which consisted of the work of local artists in that area. I was able to buy some Art supplies which I was so excited about. In fact, when I got home last night, one of the first things I did was organize all my supplies into my new "supply box." You know how in elementary school when you go shopping for school supplies and then spend all day putting your name on everything, organizing it and just basically loving it all? That's how I felt. Anyways, I'm deviating. Back to our trip.
We went out one night to a cool pizza place that served the most authentic and unique pizza we'd ever had. Think mandarin oranges, almonds, and hawaiian toppings on a thin crust... it was a flavor sensation! I feel the need to state however, in case Sarah and Ed are reading this, that their own cooking FAR SURPASSED any restaurant we could have ever gone to! The most amazing shrimp pasta, roasted goat cheese with olive oil and pepper spread, waffles with maple cream, nutmeg and toasted pecans, oh my goodness! (you can't tell but I'm drooling right now!!!)



One of the highlights for us was traveling to a nearby resort named Chico, Montana. It was a very pituresque resort that utilized some natural hotsprings in the outdoor hotel pool. The kids had never been to a hot spring before, and I'd not been to one since I was little. I couldn't believe how HOT the water was. The weather was stunning, almost Summer-like, and it was nice to just sit back and watch our kids almost drown...uh I mean have so much fun! Seriously, the concept of a hotspring still baffles me. This earth can do some pretty cool things!!


The second major highlight for us was getting to tag along and watch John's sister perform in her first big piano recital. Now she is already a talented pianist, but she is one of those people who always seems to be striving for excellence in one way or another. She's begun taking lessons to STRENGTHEN her skills as a classical pianist. This was her first real recital and we were glad that we were able to crash it. When I say "We", I really mean everyone but me, Sam and Jess. They were simply to loud for us to feel safe taking them into the auditorium, so I simply walked the halls with them. Sam found a vase of decorative plants which he enjoyed taking apart. You'll notice in the pics below, he literally fell asleep under the chairs while clutching some of the buildings decor. Yes...I should do more to control my kids, I know. There was a quaint little duck pond across the street so after the recital the kids fed the ducks. That is always a hit!



Whew. That was a lot to catch up on. Believe me when I say that I did'nt even mention it all. John and I got home last night, and felt quite certain that this past weekend was in our eyes-darn near perfect!! We had such fun, and saw some neat things. (On the trip home, we saw some bald eagles too. Gorgious!) It seems that the more places and people we visit lately- the more we realize we have a lot to learn about being good "hosts". We LOVED every second of being down there.

Just wondering if there is a young mom out there (who watched general conferance) who did not LOVE Elder Ballards talk?
Daughters of God

I've been waiting all week to be able to read it online again, and finally it is available. It was one of those talks where I felt as though he was describing my life perfectly...right down to the spilled cheerios in sacrament meeting:) Now I do have an amazing husband who has never made me feel as though Motherhood was a thankless job and I love him for that. Still though, something about hearing an apostle of God talk about the importance of what us little ol' moms do every day that just seems to diffuse any feeling of mediocrity I could have had.

A couple of my favorite lines from his talk:

There is no one perfect way to be a good mother. Each situation is unique. Each mother has different challenges, different skills and abilities, and certainly different children. ..."What matters is that a mother loves her children deeply, and... prioritizes them above all else."

"First, recognize that the joy of motherhood comes in moments. There will be hard times and frustrating times. But amid the challenges, there are shining moments of joy and satisfaction.

Author Anna Quindlen reminds us not to rush past the fleeting moments. She said: “The biggest mistake I made [as a parent] is the one that most of us make. . . . I did not live in the moment enough. This is particularly clear now that the moment is gone. ... I wish I had treasured the doing a little more and the getting it done a little less”

This last quote expecially almost stung when I heard it. I'm so bad at brushing past (or rushing past) so many great moments because I have to get something done, or we need to be somewhere...or...whatever-you know how it is. That's probably why my one and only goal for this year is to SAVOR.

Well with this school divisions spring break approaching it is the perfect time for me to work on this. You know...let go of my to-do list a little. Relax. Slow down. I plan to try really really hard to just SAVOR this week with John and the kids. Mind you-we do have to plant our garden, and then there is that...

DOH!!! I'll try okay!!!

IT'S DONE!!!

So last fall I took the kids out to Waterton during the National Wildlife film festival. I remember the beautiful day that it was and I ended up spending the majority of the day taking pictures. Go HERE to see my post on that day. A couple of months ago I decided to paint one of the photos I had taken. It is the first large painting I've ever done. (20X24) Finally it is finished! Atleast I think it is done- that is, until I look at it again. That's when I realize all the hundreds of details I need to go back and fix. I need a teacher-and I'm debating taking it to a lady in town for some help. Hopefully she could show me how to actually do bushes and trees. I need to learn some technique.



I also managed to develop and sort and file our family photos that have been stored up on our hard drive for the past year. Now all those pics are in each kid's book. Count it...that's TWO major projects of mine...DONE!


On a side note-we just had the most fantastic weekend. We watched Saturdays conference sessions at my sisters house and today we saw both sessions with John's Dad. Talk about good talks and GREAT food and AWESOME company. Thanks so much Jewel, Kendall and Dad. So relaxing! I can't wait to be able to download some of our favorite talks. With those two projects out of the way, I think I'll have some time to read:)))

If any of you know our Sam, you may understand why I found this little clip to be so funny. It reminds me of our little man in more ways than one! Luckily Sam's language development (which I have been worried about) has improved dramatically in just the past couple of weeks. We're working on it!

Still, if Sam were ever to be compared to a Muppet Character...I think this would be the one! Not only do they speak the same language- Sam is equally dangerous in the kitchen!

April Fools!

With today being April Fools day I had every intention of pulling off a joke on John. I used to LOVE a good prank, however John is not a fan of the whole "decieving people and playing with their emotions part" of pranks, so my plan to pretend I was pregnant again was out:) Besides we all know that wouldn't even have been funny! So John left for work today unpranked and I remained as boring as ever. Luckily, others were able to pull off some good and harmless fun that made up for my negligence.

John teaches at the local High School and spends a part of his day "team teaching" with another teacher, Mr Paulson. This man has been the physics teacher for many years and is retiring in just a few months. (John is sort of being trained to replace him) He was John's teacher when John was young, and he is the kind of teacher that the kids all love. He's a pretty inspiring and creative guy and John has enjoyed sharing a classroom and learning from him this past semester.

Today John showed up and found this...







One of the perks I guess of team teaching with a man who is well known for his liking of...ducks! John and Mr.Paulson's room were filled with little rubber duckies!! Some students had hung them from the ceiling, lined cupboards and desks with them and pretty much scattered them everywhere they could-it was pretty funny. Not a small amount either. Over 1500 rubber ducks!!!!!!!! Seriously teenagers today. ....what quacks!!!

Truly Canadian Eh!!

Remember how I mentioned last week that I'd packed up all our winter clothes and put them out in the garage, thus declaring that winter was over. Uh...apparently not. Winter is back in full force. It's OK. This is what we love right?


Last week John pruned the trees in our yard. We soon after learned that we should have perhaps waited until the fall. Did you know that cutting Maple Trees in the spring will cause them to "Bleed" out? We didn't. Hopefully they will all survive, since the pruning was minimal. However we discovered something cool as we sadly watched moisture seeping from the wounds of these old trees. After collecting the liquid that was running, we then boiled it down slowly. Once all the water had evaporated...oi la! This is what we had. Beautiful, thick sugary maple syrup. All two tablespoons of it! We're fighting over who gets that pancake:)

(We took pictures of each step)


Shoveling in our Flip Flops and making homemade maple syrup...
Now is that not Canadian or what?

I think it's one of those weeks

I hit our neighbors cat. "Winky". ...killed her. It isn't like I didn't try to avoid her but she shot out onto the road so fast it was weird. I later found out she'd only had one eye, which explains alot. Poor thing just probably didn't even see me coming. It was so sad.

You know, nothing says "ridiculous" like showing up on your neighbors doorstep and saying, "So you know how I killed your cat earlier? Well...here are some Banana Berry Bran muffins...?"

For the love!
What could I do for them that would make this better?

A couple of reason why...

1. So Abby is five. For a long time now she's been able to dress herself, but only recently have I noticed the independance and determination she's developed to actually "CHOOSE" what she wears. This isn't what bothers me. I am thrilled that she is growing up and...even developing a mind of her own. What bothers me is that she CHOOSES to wear this:

 

...to school! So here was the dilemna. I was sitting there trying to be supportive all-the-while encouraging her to perhaps put on something different for pre-school. Abby is equally insistent that she's already chosen and darnit she looks GOOD! Crossroads. Do I be a good mom and respect her developing independence and decision making skills, thus allowing her to commit what I think would be social suicide. OR do I find her something more appropriate to wear perhaps sending the message that she isn't infact capable of making her own choices yet? ....I made her change.


2. Last night I went running with my sister...ok if I'm to be totally honest...it was more like walking. Before I left I put the kids to sleep and then John followed me outside to move the truck so that I could get out with our van. I grabbed my stuff, locked the door, hopped in the van and drove off. Had a great walk with Jewel-infact I ended up staying out longer than the usual thirty minutes. When I got back I was startled to see John sitting, smiling...sorta, on our front porch, without a coat. I asked him something like, "Are you crazy...what are you doing?" Apparantly he was waiting for me...to get home...because I'd locked him out and taken the keys!!! So there he'd sat, in the dark, in the cold for 40 minutes. He later said he spent some of that time praying that the kids wouldn't wake up needing him. He spent some of that time doing push-ups, and the rest of that time he spent rehearsing emergency procedures and pondering what he'd do if he really had to survive in the cold longer than 40 minutes. My bad. I couldn't help but feel humbled by his calm approach. I know I would have been M-A-D. Ugly. ...I may have even sworn.

3. Yesturday Jewel went to the city for a few things. I had her bring me back a small kids' bed from Wal-Mart. I've wanted it for awhile. John has felt it was pointless. Still... I was convinced that Jess would trasnsition to it well and that we'd finally be able to sleep a night without her little feet kicking us. Well I bought it...John set it up...and SAM and ABBY have enjoyed it very much. Jessica however, is still in bed with us, and our pockets are now $60 bucks lighter.

There you have it. Three recent reasons why... I suck