From Stirling, with Love.

It is with absolute joy and overflowing hearts that we welcome Paisley into our family. From the very beginning, their story has been a testament to timing, patience, and a love that’s worth the wait. They dated before Sam left on his mission, parted ways while he was gone, and then—like a storybook reunion—picked right back up when he returned. Some things are just meant to be.

Sam worked hard to find the perfect ring, navigating the realities of adulting and the eye-opening costs of “grown-up things,” all while keeping his focus on one goal: making Paisley feel cherished. And when the day came, he orchestrated a proposal that was equal parts thoughtful, intimate, and perfectly them.

He asked me to head to a special spot in Stirling—one of the places that holds meaning for them—and I set the scene: a little picnic with sparkling cider, a fire, and a gift Sam had thoughtfully chosen for Paisley. Then I hid, peeking out just enough to watch magic unfold.

As they arrived, I couldn’t help but feel joy, admiration, and a little bit of awe. Watching Sam propose and Paisley say “yes” was a moment of pure, heart-stopping love. They are each other’s person—that undeniable kind of connection you just know is meant to last.

Seeing them together fills me with confidence that their life ahead will be beautiful, because both of them strive to be kind, thoughtful, and steadfast. Their love is the real deal, and we couldn’t be happier to witness it and celebrate it. Sam and Paisley, here’s to a lifetime of joy, laughter, and love as bright as that day in Stirling. 🥂💖

March - Mischief & Mini Golf

 

March brought a little bit of everything… which is exactly how we like it. Just when we thought winter might be loosening its grip, we were gifted a glorious snow day. There is something universally joyful about an unexpected pause in the schedule—especially when it comes with the built-in permission to stay cozy, drink something warm, and pretend responsibilities don’t exist for a few extra hours.

We were lucky enough to have Sam and Paisley home a few times this month, which meant the calendar immediately filled with our favourite kind of plans: eating together. One highlight was a trip to the ever-classic Burger Baron, where the burgers are reliably delicious and the conversation somehow always lasts longer than the meal itself. There’s just something about sitting around a table that makes time slow down in the best possible way.

Sam also checked off a memorable life experience this month… though perhaps not one he would choose to repeat. He underwent a gum graft, a procedure that involves grafting donor tissue (yes, from a cadaver… WILD) to strengthen the base of the gums. It sounded equal parts fascinating and horrifying, and while recovery wasn’t exactly a walk in the park, he handled it like a champ. Modern medicine truly is amazing… and slightly unsettling.

Meanwhile, Nate continues to keep us laughing on a near-daily basis. He is the perfect blend of confident, athletic, and unintentionally hilarious. One of March’s more creative moments came when Jessica and Nate teamed up during one of her visits home to build an indoor mini golf course. Nothing says family bonding quite like navigating living room obstacles with a putter while someone insists their shot definitely counts.

We were also thrilled to welcome Abby back to southern Alberta for a very special reason—three of her art pieces were featured in a Christian Easter art exhibit. Watching Abby experience the joy of sharing her creativity was such a proud moment. There is something deeply meaningful about seeing someone use their gifts in a way that brings both personal fulfillment and beauty to others. Her passion for art is inspiring, and it was a gift to witness that spark in action.

All in all, March gave us laughter, creativity, meaningful moments, and at least one dinner conversation that included more detail about gum tissue than anyone expected.

Spring is officially on the horizon… and we are ready. 🌷

From Rookie to OOK: Jessica’s Incredible First Year

Jessica’s first year as an OOK at the Northern Alberta Institute of Technology has been nothing short of inspiring. From the first whistle of the season, she embraced the challenge of collegiate basketball with enthusiasm, grit, and that unmistakable Jess spark that makes people want to be better just by being around her.

She saw plenty of court time early in the season, stepping confidently into her role and proving she belonged at this level. As the season progressed and senior players returned from injury, her minutes shifted—but her impact never did. Jessica continued to be a bright force and a steady source of encouragement, showing that great teammates don’t just play hard… they lift everyone around them. Strength, positivity, and heart? She brought all three in abundance.

And what a season it was! The OOKS were dominant, losing only two games all year—a remarkable accomplishment that reflects both talent and incredible team chemistry. Their hard work paid off in a big way when March brought an unforgettable opportunity: a trip to Montreal for NATIONALS!!!! ✈️🏀

While the team narrowly missed advancing to the bronze medal game, the experience itself was a huge win. Competing on the national stage, growing together, and representing their school so well is something to be incredibly proud of.  And... to top it all off, Jess was awarded "Rookie of the Year" at NAIT'S year end banquet. 

And can I just say—watching Jess cheer for her team was one of the happiest things I have ever seen. Her joy was absolutely contagious. Whether on the court or on the sidelines, she celebrated every play, every teammate, and every moment. That kind of wholehearted love for the game and for her people is something truly special.

Jessica, your first year as an OOK has been filled with growth, determination, and so much joy. We couldn’t be prouder of the player—and teammate—you are becoming. The future is bright, and we’ll be cheering every step of the way. 🏀💙

February: Love, Layups & a Little Light Vandalism

What would a February update be without at least a snippet of basketball? Don’t worry—our season tickets to the Bleachers & Beyond Tour are still very much in use.

Nate continues to do well on the court, giving us plenty of reasons to clap enthusiastically while pretending we totally understand the finer points of zone defence. Meanwhile, Jessica and the “OOKS” are absolutely dominating. It’s looking more and more like Nationals might be in their future this year… and let’s just say we are cautiously optimistic (read: already mentally planning celebratory snacks). Fingers crossed!

February also brought a very special family highlight: my niece Ella got married! We packed up with Sam and Paisley and made the drive to Calgary for a weekend that perfectly blended chaos, laughter, and the unmistakable sound of competitive Super Mario commentary. We rented a VRBO with Jewel and her girls, squeezed in plenty of visiting, and spent Valentine’s Day in the best possible way—watching Ella and Mason say “I do.” It was a joyful, love-filled weekend, with just the right amount of togetherness (and Mario Kart rivalries).

In other milestone news, Sam bought his very first car. I was genuinely impressed by how thoughtful and intentional he was through the whole process. Naturally, I had to join him on his maiden voyage to Lethbridge, where he just happened to need to pop in and wish Paisley a good day. And by “wish her a good day,” I mean lovingly decorate her vehicle with toilet paper. Ah yes… young love in its purest form.

As if that wasn’t enough Jessica excitement for one month, we were absolutely thrilled when she made a surprise visit! In what can only be described as a slightly reckless but completely worth it late-night trip, she arrived for three precious days of laughs, snacks, and quality time. Radar got his cuddles in, and the rest of us squeezed in a few cherished game nights that reminded us just how much fun it is when everyone is under one roof.

February reminded us that life is best enjoyed with a mix of big moments, small traditions, and the occasional questionable decision involving paper products and parked cars.

March, we’re ready for you… but we might need to rest our cheering voices first. 🏀

January - Buzzer Beaters and Bridal Shower

January came in hot… and by hot, I mean squeaking sneakers and echoing gym whistles.

This month belonged almost entirely to basketball. We cheered on Jessica from afar—refreshing score updates like it was our full-time job—and proudly watched Nate in person, perfecting our very professional sideline stance (arms crossed, nodding knowingly, whispering things like “great hustle!” and “Box out!”). January may not have given us much daylight, but it certainly gave us plenty of court time. 

Somewhere between tip-offs and timeouts, we managed a quick getaway to Claresholm to host a bridal shower for my niece, Ella Rausch. And honestly, what a lovely change of pace to swap gym shoes for charcuterie boards. It was such a joy to celebrate Ella and shower her with love, laughter, and just the right number of wedding-themed games (because one must never go too far).

All in all, January was a full-court press of family, fun, and fast breaks. We may not have improved our vertical jump, but our cheering stamina is definitely in mid-season form.

Onward to February… where we will likely continue to ask, “What time is the game?” 🏀

Boxing Day in Waterton: Cold Water, Warm Hearts

Boxing Day this year found us packing up and heading to Waterton, a tradition that’s quickly become one of my favourite ways to close out Christmas. Sam and Paisley couldn’t be with us this time, which we definitely felt, but Grayson was able to come along—and that alone made the trip feel special.

We started the day the best way possible: bundled up, laughing, and roasting hot dogs together. There’s just something about food over a fire in the winter that makes everything taste better and slows life down in the best way.

Then came the main event: the 3rd Annual Polar Dip into Waterton Lake. Now, to be fair, the weather wasn’t the worst we’ve ever faced—but do not be fooled. The water was unbelievably cold. The kind of cold that steals your breath and makes you question all of your life choices.

I went in up to my shoulders and lasted—honestly—only a couple of seconds before retreating. Abby, John, Grayson, and Jessica braved it a little longer and deserve full credit for their courage. Nate, on the other hand, offered some excellent fake pump-up energy…and then didn’t go in at all. 😂

By the time it was over, we were all buzzing—laughing, exhilarated, proud of ourselves, and very ready for warmer clothes and hot drinks. There’s something about doing something a little uncomfortable together that makes the joy afterward even sweeter.

The rest of Christmas break unfolded just as it should: resting, relaxing, visiting with family, and soaking up time together. No rushing. No pressure. Just gratitude.

I feel incredibly blessed—for traditions, for togetherness, and for moments like these that remind me how full my heart really is. 💙

Christmas Day - Blessed to be together

Christmas Day was wonderfully relaxing. For the first time ever, the kids slept in. It was shortly after 9:30 a.m. when everyone finally wandered upstairs, breaking through the wrapping paper and moseying over to their stockings. Also—for the first time ever—Amazon (ahem… Santa) delivered everything on time, with no “IOUs” to unwrap. Well done, Santa.

After breakfast pizza, we went to visit Grandpa. It was special to be with him as a family. I love him so much, and now that he lives in a seniors’ home, I don’t see him as often. For so many years, our Christmases revolved around him, and this marked the first Christmas he wasn’t able to join us. That absence was felt.

The rest of the day was spent relaxing—watching movies and playing games. I love this family so much, and it’s exciting to think about how we will continue to grow and evolve together. I will forever be grateful for this year and for the season we were blessed to share.

Christmas Eve - A toast to a perfect night!

Christmas Eve was everything it should be—full, festive, and overflowing with togetherness. Our annual lobster night did not disappoint: brisket, potato wedges, French onion soup, lobster, mussels, crab, and shrimp made for an absolutely delightful dinner.

Paisley gave us the sweetest surprise of the night. We thought she was sick and unable to join us, but just after the six of us sat down at the table, she walked through the door. Pure joy all around.

This year, I assigned everyone a small “dinner task.” Nate was in charge of frequent toasts and, as expected, he did not disappoint. John was supposed to start a slow clap and keep it going until everyone joined in—he chose not to play along—but everyone else fulfilled their roles perfectly, adding lots of laughter to the evening.

After dinner, games, visiting, and plenty of fun, we changed into our pajamas—OOKS T-shirts to mark the year we officially became fans while cheering Jessica on. Of course, no Christmas Eve is complete without the sibling gift exchange, driving around to look at Christmas lights and watching The Polar Express before John and I laid out the gifts and filled the stockings.

It truly was a perfect Christmas Eve together. I fell asleep that night with a heart fuller than ever.