Thursday, October 8, 2020

Family Pics - That time Sam had enough

Sam has grown tired of my constant need for family photos. 
I don't entirely understand what the big deal is, but he asks a lot of "whys" whenever I announce it is picture day.  

Why do I have to be in it?
Why do we have to go somewhere else to take it?
Why can't we just take it in our backyard?
Why do I have to wear something dumb?
Why do we have to do this every two months?

So many questions!


I'll be the first to admit, I am obsessed with taking family photos.  It isn't a vanity thing.  I wouldn't say any of us are particularly photogenic (well except John) and none of us enjoys having our picture taken. 


I just feel a deep desire to document my families life in photos, that's all. 
Actually, there is probably some deep-rooted reason that stems from the fact that I grew up without a Mom and have only ONE complete family photo from my childhood.

That might be why, but I don't want to burden Sam with that, so instead, I do my best to convince him that "this time around it will be more fun."

It's always a lie, and he and I both know it, but still, he comes.


This past weekend, while our family was still basking in the peaceful, sorta spiritual glow from General Conference, we whisked out to Waterton for one final attempt at a family photo and we were all hoping that perhaps, this time, we'd capture a shot that I would be happy with.  


Things weren't looking good, I'm not going to lie.  The girls were cooperative and John was willing (he knew better than to complain) but my boys...oh, my boys.  After one shot, they just weren't having it anymore.  Suddenly though, in a strange and unexpected turn of events ..SAM grabbed the camera, told me to go sit down, and took the whole matter into his own hands. 

He adjusted the camera, changed lenses, directed family members, set timers, and hit click before joining us in the shots, and he did it all while being incredibly entertaining.

What the what?  Did he forget that family photos are not supposed to be fun?
Look at him, going and making this an enjoyable experience for everyone! ;)


I feel satisfied.
And grateful.
And I wonder if he'd let us do this again sometime;)
 

Cameron Lake - Hello, my friend!

The road to Cameron Lake opened up last week for the first time in THREE years!  It is the last road in the park to open since the Kenow wildfire in 2017 ravaged the park and we were so excited to finally get to drive that beautiful road again.


We picked a beautiful day to go too, as the fall colors were all at a peak.  
We stopped along the way, taking pictures of some of my favorite spots!


             The lake was as beautiful as ever and you could see exactly where the firemen had focused their preventative measures, leaving a swath of healthy treeline right around the lake.  

This fall has given us some beautiful days and being up here felt like being reunited with an old friend.

A day at the Movies

My niece Ella works at a movie theatre and so graciously arranged a day in September when my whole family could gather to watch Mulan.  We had the whole theatre to ourselves!

How cool is that? 


             Popcorn, pop, candy, and pizza after the show. 
We could sit anywhere we wanted.  Talk as loud as we wanted and laugh, cheer, cry as loud as we wanted.
I mean, we didn't do those things, but just knowing that we could have made the experience of going to the movies that much more enjoyable. 

We were so spoiled and truly enjoyed the day with them all.

  
 (Photo taken by my brother, Chad)

I sure love this group and the fact that we live close enough to each other to enjoy adventures like this together!

Elk Rut - Annual Family Visit



Every year we look forward to watching the Elk who gather along the Blackiston fan in Waterton.  To me, Elk rutting season means hot chocolate, toques, binoculars, cameras, and family all happily squished in a vehicle as we listen to the bugling and watch as the bulls aggressively try to manage their herds.  

This year, we've only managed to get out there once so far to watch the rutting and for some reason, only Abby and Jess wanted to join John and I.  What gives?  Is this not our whole families favorite thing to do in the fall?  What is happening?


In my opinion, if you are too busy to watch the Elk rutting, you are quite frankly, just too busy.

September Days

Despite the return to school, and sports and schedules, we did our very best to enjoy our favorite summer things, just the same!

John tried to capitalize on every weekend/evening without volleyball to take the boat and paddleboards out for a "spin."  We rigged up a way to pull the paddleboards behind us to the furthest end of Payne lake, where John could fish, while Jess and I drifted away with our toes in the water.  


Our school division is one of the only divisions in the province allowing team sports to be played. It doesn't matter that there is only one other school for Sam's team to play against, he and Jess have spent a few days trying to work out the kinks in their serves and spikes!  



Jessica and I have been trying our best to go on as many drives as possible.  On one particular day, the forecast was calling for snow at the higher elevations, which had us feeling so excited.  I swear, we could smell it in the air.  We tried driving the Chief Mountain Highway because that is our favorite place to enjoy the first snowfall of the year but, no such luck. We were a couple of hours too early;)
Oh, how we love this time of year!



    
 Nate, Jess, John, and I found a new spot along Emerald Bay that I can't wait to enjoy more next summer!  It's got a rocky beach, a spot for our battle boards and trees for our hammocks for those of us who would rather just hang around and stare up at the sky.  

Life is just better with a hammock!



Sam and Nate have been wanting a dartboard for a long time now.  I had every intention of saving that idea for a future Christmas gift but darn them and their persistence!  
Turns out, our whole family has enjoyed having this around.  We hold tournaments some evenings before watching M*A*S*H or The Cosby Show, and more than once this board has provided the means for settling a dispute or making some of the important decisions in life.  
Question: "Mom, would you let me skip class today?"  
Answer: "Thros a bullseye and I'll let ya."

So far, this has been a win-win for me as a parent.


We harvested our garden and it feels so so good to have that all done for a season.  
Nate was more than happy to dig up the stalks of corn. 

We sure are loving these beautiful fall days!

Sunday, September 13, 2020

The Evolution of Home

We've changed houses more in the last 10 years then I would like to admit, but we have officially been in our own home for 1 straight year. I didn't realize how much I would enjoy changing our home without having to change our home. You know what I'm saying?

We've had to be a little bit patient at times with the changes we've wanted to make, but that only helps me appreciate this place that much more.   I figured it was time to do a recap of all the amazing things we've  John has done. 

This is what our home looked like in February 2019, just a few days after we purchased it.  


By the time we took possession of the house in June, the snow had melted leaving us with a clearer picture.  Though the interior had been updated beautifully, the yard consisted of healthy thriving weeds and spotty patches of grass.  


There was a shed in the southwest corner of the yard that we tried to turn into a picnic area, which for the better part of our first summer here, we fondly referred to as "The Swamp." 

 During those first couple of months, we spend hours outside trying to dig up all of the weeds by hand.  
We could tell that there had once been a garden on this property and we were determined to re-establish that as soon as we could.  


Once the weeds were gone, we tilled a garden and scattered grass seed.



The last thing we did last summer was to create a temporary patio/picnic area just off of our deck.  We knew this would be temporary because that happened to be the worlds most deadliest, most poorly built deck, but this makeshift patio was enough to appease me for one summer. ;)


And Finally, our last project during that first summer in the house was to close the back yard by building a fence on the west side of the house.  It doesn't match the rest of the old fence, but Jessica was thrilled to point out that with an enclosed yard, we could now technically have a dog. 


After all of that, we sat back and hunkered down, waiting comfortably for fall, winter, and spring to pass.  

After a very tumultuous early part of 2020, and despite the challenges of this past few months we've once again gotten to spend some priceless summer days making this place our own.  This year we had so many goals for the yard that I broke it all up into various phases.  

 Trees, bushes and flowers
We planted trees!  I LOVE planting trees.   
In the front yard, we planted an Amur maple (which is supposed to produce beautiful red leaves in the fall) as well as two Dogwood bushes that John dug up from a ditch and relocated for me.  (I also repainted our front door.  I like it much better!)

In the backyard, we planted to Evans Cherry trees as well as a Lilac bush.  We ditched the ugly shed (sold it to a neighbor) and tried to create a little nook that I hope will one day be a private little grove.




The Garden
It was such fun to garden again.  Oh, how I have missed this!  
We planted corn, cucumber, radishes, onions, chard, beets, lettuce, asparagus, dill, tomatoes and rhubarb.

Along the east side of the house, we dug up some of the grass planted last year and made a space for Raspberry canes.  John had helped Grandpa thin his patch, as he does every year, and felt inspired to bring some over here.  I love it!

The local Hutterites sold me 75 strawberry plants, which we wrapped around the south and west sides of the house.   


Storage Shed
I never wanted to be those people who owned so much that we needed a shed to store things in, yet here we were in July, ripping out part of the fence built last summer to make room for a storage shed.  Though it pains me to say it - we love having a cleaner garage as all of our "out of season" belongings now live!


Deck and Patio
Finally, after all that, we tackled the last, most daunting project, which happened to be the very thing the home inspector told us a year ago would need to be done.   He had mentioned that the deck was in "bad shape" but only once John began dismantling it, did we realize that it had never really been in good shape.  We were shocked to find that the stairs had been attached only with two screws, and the beam that connected the floor of the deck to the two outer posts had never even been secured to anything at all. The entire deck floor rested on a large beam that freely sat atop two posts.    
It was definitely time for a change.  


John worked for hours and hours and days and days on this deck.  None of us could really help him, or so he said, but we sure looked on in awe.  

In just over a week he'd built a beautiful new deck AND ...

...a patio!  
(Which included a windbreak so we could actually enjoy our evenings outside without blowing away.)



It all came together so nicely and I'm so grateful for all of Johns hard work!


We have decided that we should now build a front porch, and we will need a new furnace down the road, but perhaps those things can wait until next summer. 

For now, we are oh so content.

August Awesomeness

 I'm not just a fan of alliteration (though I am that) August really was Awesome!

I found myself waking up each day wondering how I could possibly slow this month down.  After being out of school since March it suddenly seemed too soon to think about going back. 

Usually, during the first week of August, we celebrate our local Heritage Days with week-long festivities, fireworks, rodeos, and a parade.  Due to COVID, the celebrations had to be a little more individualized and...creative.  Sam and Jess entered the towns rock painting competition.  Jessica painted Nacho Libre and Sam (who spent the month obsessively watching the office) painting "Prison Mike" on his rock. 

Proud mom right here as I considered their submissions.  haha

The backyard became one of my "Happy Places" this summer and I was reminded of how nice it is to be able to invest in a yard of our own.  And boy have we!  We spent the summer tearing out, building, digging, and planting.  I'm so excited about the direction this yard is going.  And we got to once again enjoy chard, beet greens, and all the other goodness that comes from having a garden.  Bliss!

 John has become a real fan of river fishing, often choosing to end a summer day by walking up and down the Belly or St. Mary River for a stretch. He became proficient at finding the best spots and we tried our best to keep up as he hopped from one fishing hole to the next. 
 Fishing has definitely become John's numero uno!
Throughout this COVID pandemic, Grandpa has continued to join us each day for dinner as well as each Sunday for our homemade Sunday service.  We have loved having him join us, though I have worried incessantly about how we can keep him safe.  Do we start taking him meals?  Get his groceries and run his errands for him?  Not wanting to be completely shut in, Gramps insisted on still joining us, but he did ask for some masks and sanitizer to keep in his vehicle to use when grocery shopping.  We aren't convinced of the usefulness of masks, but it has since become required at our local grocery store and we are all trying.  
 
It was a sad realization for us this summer to consider the fact that we have gone a whole year without seeing most of John's family.  Since being married, there hasn't been a summer when John's siblings haven't gathered for a week or two.  If there wasn't a planned reunion, there would always be a couple of families who would come to Canada or an occasion that would take us down to the states - but that could not be the case this year and we missed them.  Our kids often said, "It just doesn't feel like summer without seeing everyone."

Luckily - Rachel and her clan joined us often and those visits quickly became a highlight for us.  Evenings in Waterton are much more adventurous when younger cousins join us!  haha

Jessica and Nate even spent a few days up in Calgary!
They came home from that raving about beaches, barbeques, yummy food, and all the fun things there are to do in the city! (#spoiled)



Towards the end of summer, we were finally able to gather with all of my siblings.  It wasn't COVID that kept us apart all summer, but rather everyone's work schedules.  With four of the older kids working in Waterton, and the Okotoks cousins working their jobs, it took a little bit of planning to make this day happen, but I'm so glad it did!
We all gathered at a Willow Creek Provincial Park (a childhood favorite) and spent the afternoon and evening playing in the water, visiting, eating, and catching up.  I have nieces coming and going from missions, moving away to go to school, and starting adventures of their own.  It is so exciting to see!
Being around my siblings and their kids always makes me so happy.  


Just days after that get-together, Jewel took the local cousins out to Walley's beach one day (John and I both had to work) and they came back raving about the fun that they had swimming, paddleboarding, and more.  These cousins really can't get enough of each other!

John and I returned to work at the end of August.  
Suffice it to say, things are going to look a little different at school this year. 


A couple of us EAs (Educational Assistants) went hiking in Waterton in between our two workdays.  It felt nice to visit with these girls again and made me feel a little more excited about returning to work.


On the last day of August, John and I went on a date.  That in and of itself is a fairly momentous occasion, but it also happened to be a remarkably beautiful evening.  We took our paddleboards (and fishing rods) and paddled further along Upper Waterton Lake, discovering a beautiful rocky beach (every rock was perfect for skipping) and a fun little dock which we were able to fish from and have all to ourselves.  

That's all I can recall from an absolute blur of a month. 
It was definitely full of some pretty awesome moments.