December is FLYING by! It makes me very sad, and kinda excited all at the same time. There is nothing more enjoyable then Christmas time with a household of manic and crazy kids;) On the other hand though- I'm totally looking forward to a new year! Some of the highlights of the week:
Sledding:
There is a small little hill in the Alley south of our house that is just perfect for our kids. On Saturday afternoon Abby, Sam and Jess ventured out with Dad for some sledding fun. I joined them for a bit before lunch. Sadly, I fell, landed on my camera and cracked it pretty good. I went home and cried;)
Oh well, that whole photography thing was a fun while it lasted, but I suppose it's time for a new hobby anyway. Perhaps I'll dust off my ol' guitar;)
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Christmas Shopping is DONE:
Alright...technically...Santa still needs to come up with three sets of pajamas because last year Mrs.Claus (that's me;) decided to take advantage of post christmas sales in town and bought the kids jammies TEN sizes too big! What? It's not my fault that they didn't grow as much as I thought they would:)
Christmas Eve sleepwear aside- the rest of the gifts are bought, wrapped and hidden in the darkest corner of our crawl space.
(I told the kids that there were snakes in the crawl space- and they've not attempted to explore it yet;)
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Sam wants to be Pure in Heart:
The other day Sam and Abby asked if they could walk home from school because it was snowing and the flakes were huge and fluffy and fun! THIRTY minutes later they finally made it home with wet socks, cold cheeks and red noses. As Sam was having his after school snack he looked up at me and asked, "Mom. Do you think I am pure in heart?"
His expression was so sincere and he almost seemed to be hoping that I'd tell him he was. I took a minute to tell him what I thought it means to be pure in heart and then finished by telling Sam that yes...I think that...most days...when he wants to be.....and tries really hard...:)....he is definitely Pure in Heart.
"Phew!" He said. "Because Abby saw the Snow Queen on the way home from school and she said that only the pure in heart can see her, and I really want to see her!"
Teaching moment with my oldest son? Epic fail.
Maybe next time;)
Nate has an attitude problem:
A month or so ago I asked one of the nursery leaders how Nate was doing in Nursery. Expecting a pleasant review I was a little taken aback when the response was, "Well...he doesn't share. Doesn't say please. And doesn't say sorry."
Since then I've implemented an intervention of sorts in hopes that I can straighten this child out before he escapes his formative years. At the very least I've hoped that I could restore him to the sweet lovable little boy we know so well. No lie though - he has in fact developed a little mean streak. I sort of think of him as a dangerous pet...like a pitbull. I personally am not afraid of him, but that's only because I'm the one who provides for him. However- I'm pretty sure every body else has every reason to fear!
Earlier this week- I got a babysitter one morning (a sweet girl who is home schooled and thankfully available during the day) so that I could go to a dentist appointment. Well- as soon as Nate saw her- he knew what was up and he got LIVID! I said a little prayer for her as I drove away- believe me I did. When I returned home - her report was slightly worse then that nursery leader's was all those weeks ago;) Apparently, Nathan had shut himself up in my bedroom and barricaded the door with his kicking and screaming self, refusing to let her in the entire time! When she would open the door to check on him occasionally he would yell at her. Specifically these words - "DIE...DIE!!!!"
Seriously, for a boy who can barely talk- he sure packs a lot of punch into the words he does say.
(I'm sure we have his older siblings to thank for that one;)
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Suffice it to say- I've begun the annual tradition of Christmas Blackmail with the kids. (It's just a fun little game I like to play every now and then, which I hope will one day result in finer more decent human beings.)
For example- they now know that if any of them teaches Nate to say mean things again - Santa will take one of their presents out of his sack!
And Abby knows that if she doesn't practice her piano for a half an hour every day - then Santa will....take a present of hers out of his sack!
And I was sure to warn the kids this evening that if they didn't sit reverently and politely while visiting with the Bishop during tithing settlement then...you guessed it - Santa will take a present of theirs out of his sack.
So far the kids are all running a deficit in the gift department;) but they are sure trying with all their little hearts to be good !
(even the not so pure ones;)